If you and the other party cannot agree

Getting an initial family order in the Provincial Court of British Columbia

Choosing your guide

Note: Mouse over any of the terms in green type to see a definition.

These guides include:

  • a step-by-step explanation of what to do,
  • links to blank copies of the court forms you will need and instructions for completing these forms,
  • information about what happens when you go to court, and
  • tips on how to represent yourself if you do not have a lawyer.

Click on the correct guide (see links below) to see a list of step-by-step instructions. Then read the instructions. Once you are familiar with the instructions, print out, download, or open the forms you need and complete them.

Note: If you are applying for an initial order, you will sometimes be referred to as the applicant in your guide. If you are responding to an application for an initial order, you will sometimes be referred to as the respondent.

Money paid by one party to the other party as financial support. Support can be paid for a former spouse or for any or all children.
Can refer to where and with whom a child lives, or where a child lives and the rights and responsibilities of a parent regarding the child in his or her care.
The responsibility for making major decisions for children about such things as what kind of education, health care, or religious training they will receive, and how to manage anything the children may own, such as property or money.
Generally means the time children spend with the parent they do not usually live with. However, access is not limited to the parent who does not have custody — any person can apply for access to a child (including grandparents, aunts and uncles, and other relatives).
A document that records the decision of a judge/master and is entered at the court registry after the judge/master makes his or her decision.
In many court proceedings, a term used for the party who initiates the action or court proceedings.
In many court proceedings, a term used for a party who responds to the application.